Hi, I’m 15, female (I think), and very bisexual. But my coming out happened when I was 13/14. (before I begin, I want to add that I only came out to (some) friends, as I don’t feel the need to tell the whole family until I actually date a girl). […]
Have you every walked past the condom section in the shops and wondered how all those different types of condoms would look or feel? Have you tried them all? I've always been curious to try them out, but I guess I didn't because I was afraid of wasting my money. Well now I decided that I want to try out them all to see which I like best.
The Condom Experiment
As a gay guy, I often see reference to various identities: LGBT or LGBTQ or LGBTQI, etc. But I don't often stop to think about the true meaning of the letters that represent the rainbow of identities that so many of us have. So what is the gay identity?
LGBTQIA+: the meaning of the letters
Cars are usually seen as manly and heterosexual. But are they really? This article explores the homoeroticism of cars.
Gay Men Like Cars Too
1 Planning to travel to South Africa as a gay person? Read this brief guide to gay travel in South Africa.
Tips for gay travel to South Africa
Sex is a big thing in our lives, and should be an intimate experience. This guide gives some tips on gay sex and foreplay.
The ultimate guide to gay sex
I am 58 and sexually attracted to guys since my mid-teens but also to girls. 26 years of marriage, kids and never letting anyone know my 'dark secret'.
Mark’s Coming Out Story
1 I was born in a very strict and poor Nigerian family. I thought I was pretty normal until I was told that, in fact, I was different.
Pierrot Obi’s Coming Out Story
As the new year approaches, we reflect on the year that has passed, and tend to look forward to (or fear) the year ahead. Here 6 things to quit in 2019.
6 Things To Quit In 2019 – New Year Resolutions
Jack Parow recently posted a homophobic meme to Twitter. The meme includes a picture of musicians the Jonas brothers and bottles of Parow brandy. The photo of the Jonas brothers is labelled with “moffies”, a derogatory phrase to describe gay men while the words ‘die manne’ (the men) are written […]
Rapper Jack Parow posts homophobic tweet
Christmas is a time to relax and have fun, but this may create a financial burden. Try some of these tips to save money this Christmas.
6 best ways to save money this Christmas
The season of gift-giving is finally here! Take a look at the best Xmas gifts for any gay man in your life, choose one from the list and you’re good to go!
5 Best Xmas Gifts for the Gay Men in Your ...
2 Getting older isn't always a bad thing, especially when it comes with maturity and wisdom to lead a more happy and fulfilling life. Here are some habits that I feel we can give up before we turn 30 (or now, if you are already over 30).
Why you should stop these bad habits before you turn ...
Being gay and religious can be challenging because it often feels like most gay people are non-religious or anti-religious. Are you gay and religious?
Help, I’m gay and Christian. Is this a paradox?
GoodLuck is an exciting live electronic pop band from South Africa, and we've been able to engage with them in an interview. Music can be so powerful in connecting people, and inspiring people. I've been hearing their music quite a bit lately, and have absolutely fallen in love with them!